Dealing A Stubborn Child
At this point, your child may show a lot of stubbornness and we all agree that dealing with a stubborn child is indeed a difficult task! It drains every bit of your energy and still somewhere things don’t fall into place. You don’t know, what is happening and how to deal it. Your child doesn’t budge and you are clueless how to make him do what is meant to be done.
Well, tricky. The first thing you need here is patience, and patience in abundance. It may not be easy but you have absolutely no choice but to be patient with your child. You need to go a step further in being calm and understand what and where the problems lie. Now, some kids are stubborn by nature. Such a thing can only be dealt with constant counselling with good positive words and patience. And it disappears with time.
But, sometimes kids become stubborn out of some underlying reasons. Maybe he is missing something in his life. He is seeking attention or is going through an emotional upheaval that he is not able to express. Dig deep into it. If you feel that it is a sudden affair, try to tap the reason that is causing it. This will help you sort out quite a bit of your problem. Either ways, the key here is to patiently understand your child and deal with it. Screaming and hitting will make things worse and it will go downhill. So, be patient and work on.