Let This One Thing Never Hinder Your Good Parenting
At this stage, a lot of development and changes are surfacing in your child is a direct reflection of what your behavior is like. It is critical that you know that your behaviors may be a result of your own unmet needs, perhaps from your childhood. Make sure you honestly reflect on which buttons your child has figured out how to push and why those buttons are there for you in the first place. The greatest gift you can give your child is to heal your own wounds. If you don’t, you may inadvertently wound the one you love most – your child.
So never let your troubled mind or past affect your child's mind or your own parenting skills. If you have some problems that need addressing, talk to a specialist or to a family friend who can guide you and help you come out of your problem.