Respond To Your Child, Not The Whining Behaviour
This is a very important point to dwell upon. It is important to understand why a child is behaving in a certain way. The focus point of parents while dealing with the child is important. Most of the times, things get worse because we are focusing on the wrong areas and the wrong things. For example, if your child is whining excessively, we forget to console the child and start addressing the whining problem more.
While in actuality, there is no problem in whining and it is the child who needs more attention. Similarly, we notice more when the child is not behaving well and so on and so forth. But what we need to focus more is why the child is doing so and take him in confidence and talk about it. It is important that we focus on the child than his behaviour.
This will help your kid to open up more and a healthy communication will build up. Otherwise he will try to address his problems through erratic behaviour, which may lead to more problems and confusions in both of you. So, focusing on the right set of issues is the best way to go about it. So, choose wise what you want to do when your little one is behaving in a certain way.